The bottom line is that I did this thing when I did not believe I could or would. Lots of my friends have said,
"Of course, you did it!"
Honestly, there is no 'of course' about it. Like many of you, I am maxed out by responsibility and short on time, energy, belief in myself, and space. I'm a single mom of a teenager, a home provider for him and my mom, a girlfriend. I work full-time in a demanding field. Oh, and there is the small issue of my deep-seated Imposter Syndrome.
In my first-ever blog post, I wrote,
I kind of wonder why anyone would want to read something I've written about something I'm doing. That said, I can write my story even if no one wants to read it, right?
Early in life, I learned to make fun of myself before someone else could do it. Sub-consciously, that's what that opening was - an anticipatory self-diss to undermine potential pain caused by someone else. Yet, I wrote 28 out of 31 days, and I am so glad I did.
- I learned that I have stories and ideas worth sharing, but...
- I also learned that the writing really can be just for me.
- I learned that I like to be inspired by other writers and try on some of their techniques, playing with the writing process.
- I learned that writing is built on a foundation of noticing, which is a habit I want to cultivate.
What do you do when you believe you should write? I learned this month, March 2026, that you should write. I've had an awesome experience as a first-year Slicer, and I am deeply grateful to the founders who create the space and culture, my friend Lisa Vahey who personally invited and encouraged me, and folks who took the time to comment and connect. Please keep writing, and I will, too.
Congrats! Reading this I see that you understand yourself and you”get” this challenge. You get it! Your description is spot on. I’m so glad you ignored those doubts and did it.
ReplyDeleteIt has been a pleasure to read your slices throughout the month! Today, these lines particularly spoke to me: " I learned that I have stories and ideas worth sharing, but...I also learned that the writing really can be just for me." I hope you continue writing for yourself, and I also hope you continue sharing! Your posts have been a treat to read.
ReplyDeleteLucy, what an awesome thing you've done. Yes, for the Slicing joy, but most of all, for you. I especially think looking back on the Slices from your trip will remind you of the small moments that make up parenting, and daughtering, on a road trip. Your writing life inspires me, and I'm so glad you Sliced!
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